The Torah forbids Lashon Hara, speaking negatively about others. Yet, when it comes to ourselves, we show no such restraint. We carry hidden beliefs that whisper, “We're not good enough,” “not capable,” or “not worthy”.  But here's the truth: negative self-talk isn't just harmful, it's forbidden.  lf you wouldn't say it about someone else, why say it about yourself?

Thoughts are just unspoken words, and tearing yourself down is character assassination; it goes against the soul God placed in you.  And beyond that, it's simply not true.  If you're here, it's because God wants you here.  You were created in the image of God, with purpose, with value, with love.  It's time to stop the self-doubt and surrender to the truth: You are wanted. You are loved. You are holy.

God favors committed people. True success comes when you go ‘all in’—no exit plans, no hesitation. But how do you get there? The key is understanding the difference between deciding and committing.  

Each one is its own world.  Deciding is a process of elimination-you weigh the pros and cons and choose the best option.  Commitment is a different world entirely, It's not based on reasons; it's the declaration:

I'm in, no matter what.  When God sees that kind of commitment, doors open, obstacles clear, and the path forward reveals itself.  Learn to live in a world of commitment and watch the seas part.

Self-expression is the essence of human existence. In Judaism, human beings are called medaber - speakers - but most of us grew up learning to say what others wanted to hear. That's not true self-expression. It's just expression, shaped by expectation.

Many people don't even know what they really want to say, as years of conforming buried their authentic voice.  God created people for expression, creativity and innovation.  Self-expression is the hallmark of humanity.

In The Possible You, we finally get the courage to stop saying what others want to hear and start speaking from our essence. No, it doesn't mean you'll say wild things or wear purple polka-dotted shirts. There's a way to express yourself that's still appropriate— but it has to be you. When you're fully self-expressed, you leave nothing unsaid. You don't lie awake wishing you had shared more of yourself, your truth, your love. Don't die with your words unsaid. Don't die with your song yet unsung.